Would you dance in the rain with me
Would you lift me in the air a blow me a kiss
Would you wrap your arms around my waist
Would make me smile and forget about the pain
Would you fight with me and help me off the ground
Would you be my voice ,if I needed to shout out loud ?
Would you be there, till the end of time ?
Would you be there, would you let me make you mine ?
me me me me me…. lets talk about me, myself and I. Is that what you are about?
Would you do the same for me?
Sorry if the above sounds so negative, I realize that is what you think you want or need in a person or maybe its your ideals of the perfect person you seek. I just wanted you to realize that you are only focused on your wants and needs in your romanticized quest.
To answer your questions though
Yes, but lets pick the days. I hate cold rains and wet clothes.
Yes, but I rather kiss you for real and I just hope I dont get a hernia while lifting
Gladly and lovingly, there’s nothing like the love connection of a soft embrace. But that usually leads to something more if in the appropriate settings.
My Goal is always to make my mate happy and smile-but it seems I am always the one left wanting myself, so would you do equally the same for me?
I dont like to fight but I can…. But fighting is not my goal in a relationship as it never leads to an answer- only a one sided victory which leaves the other side with many regrets and enclosed wounds. Thus at some point a retaliation or repressed animosity will emerge later on. So lets skip fighting and work it out!?
I can be a voice, but to be the bad guy every day, while others pretend to bea meek or Innocent Rose that says and does no wrong, someone to voice and do the dirty work is not what I consider criteria in a relationship. be strong and take stand up for yourself I will help you or be there when needed.
Nope! We all die and when I die (probably long before you do) were gone!
Be there? Make you Mine? Ummm, that worries me a little! Yep I would be there if in the realms of reasonable and rational possibility…we have to work you know and traffic gridlock is unbelievable these days. Make you Mine? Sounds a little clingy and possessive to me. we are all our own person and need space to grow. yes I would give myself to you but I would not allow you to dress me up and control me like some Ken Doll. Nor would you hang on my leg and I drag you along or allow you to act like some possessive villein if I talked to some other female.
Oh god, I’m so sorry if this came out the wrong way ! I didn’t want to make this all about me. In my head it was more like “will you do this for me if I give you everything I am and everything I have ” kind of thing. My ideals… I’d love a guy who’s romantic, caring, polite, funny, smart but not c***y, passionate about whatever he is doing and cheerful, loyal and sincere. Those are the things that would make a guy perfect in my opinion.
To be fair, I am not a fan of rainy days at all, this type of weather just brings me down but I thought it’d be nice to dance in the rain just for the sake of it
I completely agree on this one
Hugs to me are everything. A long hug from the person you care about is all it’d take to make most people happy I think
I’d put your needs above mine and your happiness would mean the world to me. So to answer your question, I’d do it no matter what. I’d be there every step of the way
Now that I read this part again, I realize that it’s not making any sense so yes, itd rather skip that part, work things out and move on
I didn’t mean for you or anyone else to do the dirty work. Just more like, help me speak up if I need to , be by my side ?
That kinda sucks haha
Not like be there 24/7 .Like, if there was something serious going on,would you be there ? And I wouldn’t exactly say I’m clingy, I’m more of a jealous person but ivr been working on that so yep.
How would you describe your ideal partner ?
I wouldn’t say it (you) came out the wrong way, I just lost my brother 2 weeks ago so its probably my mindset and I was the blame for poorly commenting as I did. I thought (you) it was beautiful over all. in saying that and believe it or not, though I spoke honestly and from my heart as I was feeling alone, but I was trying to add a little humor to it along the way but I dont use the LOL thing that often.
Its easy to romanticize in our minds (cant remember when but I did it too) but its hard to make our minds romances a reality… it takes a lot of work and more so this day and time. MR or Mrs Close enough to “eeehhhh they’ll do!” is out there but Perfection does not seem to exist. Love just happens and does not have a bucket list of wants. Outside of that, we all will fail to meet all expectations in our mates eyes at some point, its inevitably an unwanted fate of fault we must endure. Love is best taken like the weather, we make the best of the days we are given….or not!
My Ideal woman/mate is not tangible so I wont even bother. We only meet in my dreams one time, and then my dreams stopped.
But until I dream again… you and I can hold each other close, dance in the moonlight to some soft music, enjoy a good “white wine” ….. and when you wake and find a rose on your pillow, you will know I was really there.
I’m so so sorry for your loss, how are you holding up ?? Do you want to talk about how you’re feeling and what’s happened ? Cause I know it may sound dumb but I’m here for you so don’t hesitate to talk if something’s bothering you alright ? If I can be of any help, I’d gladly do it.
I can see what you mean, but I still think that when two people fall in love everything about them is perfect .Sure,you can’t find exactly what you’re looking for but it shouldn’t be too hard either if that makes any sense. Besides, they say love is blind, ain’t it ? “Love is best taken like the weather, we make the best of the days we are given” I love that .Did you think of it ?
If you meet in your dreams then I’m afraid she ain’t as tangible as you may think. Fun fact, people we see I’m our dreams, are people we’ve actually seen in our lives.
I’d love that 🙂 and we could cuddle and crack silly jokes together and maybe I will have left a note for you to see in the morning