I really worry that I'm gonna die a virgin sometimes. I'm a 21 year old college chick and I'm single as hell.I had a boyfriend briefly in highschool who I didn't kiss and a long list of crushes after. I'm awkward as heck so that may contribute as to why I'm a virgin.
I think I'm fast approaching the age where it starts to look werid to not to have had sex. It makes me feel sort of embarrassed and not as grown up as like to think I've become. I dont really tell anyone about my love life or more accurately my lack of love life. I avoid it with friends and family because I feel like I'll be judge because of it.
It worries me a lot. I feel so left behind sometimes. I just feel like its something that i need to do as a stepping stone to live the rest of my life. Some may say it's not a big deal but to me I feel like theres a unspoken stigma against older virgins. Like there most be something wrong with a person if they haven't had sex.
I know sex isnt everything but I think it's one the most intimate things we do as humans and I want to experience that.
I don’t think that you should feel ashamed that you haven’t had sex yet. Or feel that there is going to be some stigma held to you because you’re a virgin. My husband was a virgin until we started dating which is very rare nowadays for a male. I once asked him why and he said the right person and opportunity just never came about.
From the sound of it you would like to rush this experience, but I think that you should wait until the right time and the right person come along.
You should never feel that you have to tell anyone that you are a virgin.
What you choose to do with your body is completely up to you. It is also completely up to you to choose what you tell people, so if you do not want to tell anyone that you are a virgin then don’t.
Sounds good too me it hurts first but gets better after awhile my brother likes doing it with girls like you
Not getting any sex huh?
Welcome to the guys side of the world where you don’t get to pick and choose, say when or where, or control the sex scene! wish ever female on this planet and others as well had this problem 100% of their lives.
Seriously! I think it should be us guys charging for sex.
We risk everything, including imprisonment, and pay for it in form of dates (non-dutch), and do the majority heavy lifting up and down bombardments……85% of the work during sex.
Yeah. we have to make the first move ALWAYS as you stand around acting oblivious to the world, even pre-foreplay advancements, etc.. up to that final moment. Hell we can eve get you to make the first move and ask us out unless we are a movie star or hung like king kong and you are on an overdose of aphrodisiac 1,00,000,000 times concentrated Spanish Fly.
Much less give of the breath of life if we are dieting and gagging for air.
then you play some mind game of I cant call him first or he will think…..whatever bs your half witted brain summons up as an excuse.
So go to the animal shelter, get a male dog and go home and have some fun….
Or Quit thinking your puss is the center of the world and you are self deserving of everything without any of the most minute contributions
Betcha have one of those battery opperated silicone male rods in your “secret hiding place” and you use that finger to make circular motions every day until its raw…. And walk around like you dont notice men or want them.
HA!
Don’t be mad bc you have been with all the wrong women.
I have always made the first move sexually.
I enjoy being on top. That’s how most vaginal orgasms are created.
I have chased after men and in the end I’m called crazy and a stalker.
Vaginas are the center of the world, you came into this world out of a vagina.
I have a vibrator and clitoral orgasms are just as pleasurable. So no raw vag is needed. Thanks.
I am however a female and a f***ing sexy one at that.
Did you know that woman have urges just as much as men. And studies have proven that it’s on our minds more then men’s too.
I want many men sexually, I just don’t want to be called a whore and I have self-control.
HA, HA!