Posted by Anonymous on 2018/04/06 under Love I don't think I am capable of being in a relationship or even doing something spontaneous like a one night stand because I'd rather pleasure myself without anyone else helping. While I do have fantasies, I am never featured in them, so I essentially just imagine random people being intimate with each other. It's not that I feel uncomfortable picturing myself with someone, but rather that I can't visualize such a scenario in my head.