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Posted by on 2018/05/16 under Life

I feel as though no one cares for me, and I had one true friend who mived away last month, it's been hard but I've thought to see through it, so I really need someone to tell me if I need to make better friends, ones that don't leave me when they are in trouble, friends stick by eachother, right? But I have friends yet I feel so alone, like all of them are using me for some personal reason, I'm tall and I can reach things, I usually have sweets in my bag and thy always nag me for things, and I feel as though the only friend I had, was a boy btw, he kept leaving to go to other friends which I wasn't friends with and I felt as though I was abandoned by this person, I always had dreams about us, if we could ever be something, but I know he didn't feel the same, ad now kinda confused about my feelings and I just can't deal with anymore, my mother was pregnant and she had a miscarriage and that's just rained all over my parade, I was so distraught and now I'm depressed I find it difficult to go to sleep, and now I am just over stressed because of school life and friends who I really don't think are friends and I can't even right now! Please comment to give me advice…..

2 thoughts on “My life is messed up

  1. a random helper \ a helping hand says:

    Firstly let me tell you something that you need to remember, SITUATIONS ARE TEMPORARY, and ALL FRIENDS ARE NOT FOREVER FRIENDS!! you will find new friends, try reaching out to people and going out , not to drown or forget the pain, but get new experience. As well I would like to say I’m sorry for you and your mom’s loss , as miscarrying is one of my worse fears but just know not all things are meant to be , just stay positive , keep your head up, and I promise you things will get better

  2. Anonymous says:

    This world will always be a conflict about losing your faith and regaining it. There are people who make this place worth living for and vice versa. Sometimes you expect the best of people and think thay they are the same as yourself. When it turns out the exact opposite, you löse your faith in everything at once. This life is a struggle.

    I’m 27. Up until now, I’ve always wanted to have a good friend while looking at other people getting along well. I wanted to feel the friendship. Ofcourse I had friends along the way but none of them are in my life now. Sometimes the problem is not about you. Sometimes it’s the other person who doesn’t really have the quality to be a real friend. There is a big difference between a friend and a real friend. Having hundres of friends on facebook or in real life doesn’t actually mean that you’re not alone. You can be alone in a crowd too. Look for a friend who can be by your side no matter what. Someone who can accept you the way you are and someone who can be honest about you, not someone who’ll compliment you even though they think you’re wrong. If you can’t find anyone, don’t desperately try to do so. If you’re lucky, you’ll find a very dear friend or a very dear lover. Just wait and keep living your life. Because life is a mysterious thing. In a second your life can change considerably. If you have bad things happening to you, try to learn from them. If you have good memories, cherish them. All these experiences will make you who you are.

    I know staying positive is very hard in such a world, but keep your hopes up. No matter how much you löse your faith in humanity and life, remember that there are good people in this world too. They’re not billions or you don’t see all of them in front of cameras.. But behind the scenes, some people make this place a place worth living. The only time you should fear is the time when the last good person alive disappears from this world.

    You are meant to live in this life, both with good and bad experiences. You become who you are depending on what you choose to do in certain situations. It’s ok to make mistakes. Just don’t do anything you’ll regret for the rest of your life. Be your own friend. Find hobbies for yourself, do what you like the most. Do what makes you feel happy. I’m sure there are things you have yet to discover and things that even you didn’t know you liked. Welcome to the rollercoaster my friend. You’ll go up and down but you’ll always go up someday after a huge downfall. And you matter. Sometimes it takes one thing to change everything, so you matter, no matter what you think. Stay safe and pour out your feelings here if you don’t have anyone to talk to.

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