Posted by Anonymous on 2015/01/27 under Uncategorized my ex and i broke up about three of four months ago. The main reasons being he thought his depression would bring me down and i could only see him about once every two weeks because my parents dont like driving me around. We have recently started a thing again, and we have seen each other on about three occasions in this time. we have kissed etc and he has told me he loves me. I love him. I havent mentioned that yet but for the past i dont know five months i havent been able to get him out of my head for even one day. He has being trying to organise to see me again but i cant, im doing things for my parents or he is busy. I can tell he is being put off and he said that having a thing with me is hard work because he can only see me once a fortnight. i am so afraid of losing him again . its driving me crazy. The thought that i could have everything i want if my parents were more lenient is killing me.
Oh my.. well, perhaps you can try to talk about it more with your family. Hopefully he can try to win them over more. Hopefully you can get to driving soon as well, or he can try to pick you up. Though I’m unsure about how your situation is, so I can’t touch on that too much.
Perhaps you can try to communicate more though the internet, or via texting. I myself have a long distance relationship, so we can only meet on occasion. Texting and webcam is our only option lol.
But if you can, hopefully that’ll work for you two. You’ll still be able to communicate and it’ll be even better when you meet. This way you can still try to stay together and keep your love alive despite not being able to meet as often.
Wishing you the best.
Girl,
if he’s being “put off” now, imagine if he gets a job out of country for a month or 2? And is he a character your parents will approve of? (basic requirements of no drugs, no smoking, smart, dependable and has a good enough job to support both of you? or at least good at school to get a nice job in the future?)
Your parents are not as lenient as you like because they love you with all their hearts. Like hell they’re going to hand you over to a scruffy stray that can’t even feed itself yet, much less feed you too. (You get what I mean) If he really wants to spend so much time with you, ask him to meet your parents. He should then make a promise to study, get a good job and be able to live your lives together comfortably in future together. If he can’t do it then step back, things are not as serious to him as to you.
Romance is awesome and all, but when you get to your thirties, you’ll be worrying about bills for both your asses and maybe an unplanned child which you are considering to put up for adoption like a lost cat.
Bubbles,
TopHat