Posted by Anonymous on 2020/12/22 under Life It's true that a girl has no wishes to herself all life has decided by her parents? She has no dream to fullfill, is she not a human?
In 21st century there are many girls are suffered by their parent's decision . In all her life she obey her parents but when the time of choosing partner she has no rights. Whatever they choose for her she has to accept it by hook or crook otherwise they will not a cept her or abandon her. She dedicated her all life to her parents but why they didn't let her choose her partner. I don't know why parents let their daughter live her life. Sometimes a girl has to compromise with her life.
You must be from a third world country. Hear me out. Do something that your parents feel is important than your marriage. Like if you earn a lot, your parents won’t try to put your income in risk my marrying you. Once you’re successful, you’ll see that they’ll have no objection if you find someone on your own if they follow the same religion or something. If you have time and if your parents are open about you going to study in abroad, go see bigger places. Then they’ll feel like you know a lot and will respect your choice. If you aren’t already in love yet, try talking to males that your parents would like. If you stick to that category, it is highly likely that someday you’ll find your love in the same category and your parents and you both will be happy. If you’re already in love, do the previous two things. Just don’t hurry to do anything. Your life is you and only you. Remember that your parents won’t live your whole life.
Thanks your suggestion. But i want to inform you that i am from that world where you live. In my family a girl should be married at the right age. So it doesn’t matter if she earned or not. And nope I am not in love with someone.