I have been with the same man for four years, and we have recently broken up. I was the one to dump him, but I am the one heart broken, how does that work? I had a dream he had a meetme account , and when I woke up, I just had to check, and there he was. An account with his name, age, city and state, picture, and under his email account. He claims it is not him and some one is framing him, and the account was made on October 7th of 2013. Who would “frame” him and use all of his information AND his email account? I just don’t believe him, how do I know the truth? For some reason even after this, I still love him and want to be with him, but I wont take him back. I am so confused in all of this mess. I am afraid I will lose him for good if I don’t just take him back , but I do not want him to just think he can get away with it and it could happen again. What do i do ? 🙁
Find another guy. If he lied to you once, he’d lie to you twice
Okay, this is a tough situation you’re in…
Since I don’t know why you two broke up, it’s hard to give precise advice but I’ll give it my all.
If it’s a person you are willing to be with for the rest of your life you should try to get back together with him. Men get exactly as heartbroken as women (exept when there’s no love between the couple or when one has a lover). Maybe he’ll come back to you if he’s desperately in love with you. But if he’s a tough cookie, he’s gonna move on… but it takes time.
I undertand you broke up with him, then it should be even easier. For it to work you have to really want to get back together with him. Tell him a desperate story but not too desperate. If it’s true love between you, he’ll want to get back together. For the future: If you get in a fight with your bf/housband, don’t overreact and try to understand your husband.
That’s all the advice I can give to you right now 🙂
Hope everything goes well 🙂
Godspeed!