Posted by Anonymous on 2013/01/18 under Friends so i have a guy friend that i sorta like we’re always together i mean i have other friends in like classes but when it come to like hanging out its me an him and we have a new guy friend who told me he found out who my guy friend likes but my guy friend wont let him tell me he says he wants to tell me himself who he likes and i know he doesnt like me (like the way i sorta like him) im nervous im not sure i want to know who this mystery girl is because once i know im not guna be able to get it past my mind that im not her and how this girls so much better than i am for him but when he tells me i dont want to tell him “oh no, um please dont tell me i dont want to know” because i feel thats what “gal palls” are for, they can help you out when it comes to letting u know how to win the girl over or how to ask this girl out..etc. and i want to be there for him. i just dont know how to tell him that i dont want to know but im still here for him if he really needs advice even though knowing its not guna be me and him hes planing for i want him to be happy
That is a really really s*** situation you’ve got there.. I suppose what I’d do in that situation is try to protect myself. Usually, with other things I’m a very kind guy. So I would tend to put others above me, because I automatically do that. Though recently, I’ve been going through so much pain that I realized I need to put my own well-being above others’ when it comes to stuff like ‘love’ and ‘feelings’.. It’s up to you however, everyone would react differently. Whichever way it goes, best of luck!