Posted by Anonymous on 2013/03/09 under Uncategorized I sit in my house all day (other than school and church) with a bunch of people I HATE! i’m slowly losing my mind. And they want me to be this perfect Christian 15 year old girl. And i’m not. For starters I’m bisexual. I can’t tell my parents because they’d freak out. I cuss like a sailor. I have a purity ring that only makes me freakier. And much more. If my parents knew this stuff they’d probably throw me out! But I say all that to say I NEED FREEDOM, AND PRIVACY, AND SPACE to grow up and figure out for myself who I REALLY AM. Or else when I do turn 18 I’m gonna leave this house and Go crazier than what I am now….<
I think what you need to do, is accept yourself. Do not care about what people think, even your parents. They love you, and will come around eventually. Please do what makes you happy. Because this is life. And one day, you will regret holding this all inside. I know it is hard, but there are people out there who will love and accept you exactly the way you are. Good Luck .xx
Do not listen to the other person in regards to your parents understanding, often parents will NOT understand or accept this, so steel yourself against it.
That said, you NEED to be true to who you are, and the possible rejection of your parents is no reason not to.
You will never truly be happy ‘in the closet’, hiding who and what you are.
trust me.. you’ll never be happier after leaving your family. I know this. You’ll get sick and die before time. stick to your family. adopt them.