Posted by Anonymous on 2013/01/17 under Friends i have this friend and she judges me all the time. i never do anything like that to her. she has attitude and i don’t do what she wishes then she becomes annoyed and she wont talk to me and ignore me.
i have a guy i like -a lot actually- and she just judges me and him. and she does with every guy i have ever talked to. she will make rude comments and she will try to make me not like him. and i just dont know what to do anymore. the thing is is that this has been happening since me and her where in the 7th grade. and that was 4 years ago..
be strong and don’t let anyone tell you what is right and wrong because we make our own decisions. Love who you want to love. And next time she says something rude or judging, say,”Listen we all have our own opinions and I am going to do what makes me happy. Either accept me for who I am, or don’t.” You need to be forward with her and show her that bossing you around is not the best idea. Remember that this might not be a true friend for you if she is always putting you down. Good Luck .xx