Posted by Anonymous on 2015/07/03 under Uncategorized my boyfriend of two year recently broke it off with me and I was crushed, devastated to say the least and then he said “I just want to be friends” I wasn’t ready for that, but now its almost a month later and I’m still getting over it but I have coped well, I made new friends, joined a club and am doing well at work. it wasn’t the end of the world like I thought and I should thank him for the wonderful time we had together (but I’m not ready to do that quite yet) the only thing that gets me is that he has not tried to make any effort to be friends with me at all after him saying he wanted to just be friends over the past few weeks of our relationship. I wonder what I did wrong but I’m determined not to be the one to talk to him first because I don’t feel the need to see him and I am moving on and coping with the change. But Oliver just please grow up!
Honestly, you’re doing great, well done! Not many people can cope this well. So give yourself a pat on the head. Please don’t feel you’ve done anything wrong. Some people stay friends after break up, but others need to keep a distance. It’s not your fault. Please keep moving on and never look back. The brighter future is waiting for you ahead. Take care.