There are things you can do to change your life, school major, job, friends, etc. BUT, you cannot change the family you are born into. When you are born into a messed up family that always think about money and what benefits they can get out of people, you need to know when to turn your back and walk away. All they will do is use you and tell you how bad you are that you do not help. These people gave birth to you so they can get something in return. Pieces of garbage to the world, pollution.