Posted by Anonymous on 2014/09/29 under Uncategorized So this is going to seem kind’ve lame, but I can’t help it. Here goes nothing…seriously NOTHING! I’m blank years old. Lol. I’m not putting my info on the internet, but I do need some advice because my mom helped none what so ever. Here is my situation. I have this boyfriend. He is super H O T!!! There is just one thing. He isn’t for me. Like at all. I don’t understand the way I am feeling. I WANT IT TO STOP…..NOW!!!! My boyfriend is so boring and really immature. I mean he just doesn’t have that outgoing, energetic, personality. I wish he did. I mean he’s nice and all. Really nice actually. Am i just being stupid?? Here is the real problem though. My ex boyfriend. I still like him. My mom told me it isn’t necessarily him that i like, but his personality. That’s not the case though. IT’S HIM. MY WORLD REVOLVES AROUND HIM. I BREATH FOR HIM. MY EXISTENCE IS FOR HIM. He likes me too. He has been dropping hints. He said he had to tell me something, but then he said that he wouldn’t tell me unless I broke up with my boyfriend. There has been other hints also. When I told my mom about it she told me I couldn’t date this guy because he was bad. I wanted to die, but I want this feeling to stop even more. HELP??? PLEASE???
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1. Your Existence is for you. It is ALWAYS FOR YOU. Do not let it be anything other then for you.
2. Practice Meditation, It is about discipline in the mind and controlling your emotions.
3.You are between 13 and 20, most likely 17. Your mother still has control over your relationships.
4. Mothers are usally Wise,experienced and want to protect their children from all forms of danger, Emotional hurts the most.
5. YOU CAN NEVER CHANGE A PERSON, Don’t even think about it. They have to change themselves.
Sounds like your boyfriend needs to man up a bit, he will turn into something nice down the road most likely but it depends on how much he would want to improve himself.
You have an emotional attachment to your ex, This can happen for many reasons and it is most likely clouding your judgement of him and the reason your mother does not want you to date him.
If a guy says he loves you it does not mean he loves you. Alot of guys just want sex. Every guy likes the girl they want to f***. Just be aware if this ex is all about himself or not.
On a side note it hurts to be abused emotionally by people and us guys have emotions to. (My personal misgiving have left me thinking that most girls are utter morons.) And should you decide to chase after the ex don’t abuse the boyfriend, Breakup with him and do it nicely, in front of his face telling him why. Telling him That although he is kind that you just don’t find him interesting and you want to pursue other guys that you are in love with.
Your young, you need to make mistakes, you need to decide what you want, who you want, who you want to be and what laws or rules you want to put in place for yourself to be the type of person you want to be. Take your time and calmly think things through, DO NOT GET PREGNANT and whatever you decide to do should be fine. If the guy you pick does not respect your wishes he’s not worth your time. But other then that i fully encourage you to do whatever you want.