yeah like the title says it all.. I’m a completely disaster! i hate my life, I’m always feeling miserable, my parents don’t give a s*** about me. Don’t tell me to find a reason to live because thats bull. I just really don’t know what to do anymore, i cant describe this hopelessness feeling i have, i’m the biggest failure alive..
I know I probably can’t change your mind with this, but no one is a failure. You sound like you have fallen on hard times. All I can say is just try and defeat these feelings. Make it through this and come out on top, stronger than you were before.
You are not a failure, no one is ever a failure. you are better than the people that don’t even try, failing means that you are still trying, and make sure you don’t give up. I don’t know you, but if i did, i would just give you a huge hug, and tell you everything is going to be alright, and it’s going to get better, because it is indeed going to get better soon. Have faith and trust that you have a meaning to your life, it’s just that you haven’t found it yet, but you have a reason to live.
Really? Well, I believe you come from a lineage of those stupid romans, who loved to commit suicide when they thought their glory was all gone. Well, life is a b****, and the best way to live life is to f*** it in doggy style.
You should go f*** yourself “The Bastard” , no one listen to this a******, and listen to what anonymous and J said.
Hello my name is Danny and I’m writing to you because I know what it’s like to be in your state of mind.
We all go through moments of depression in our lifetime and believe it or not it is in times like these that we most often grow the most. I’m not going to tell you to find something to live for because you do not need to depend on any kind of external circumstance to find happiness. Believe it or not but the whole world is relative according to your beliefs and state of mind. Happiness and satisfaction are based off of internal circumstances that you are in one hundred percent control of at all times. Learn to control the way you think about things and you will find that the world itself is neither good or bad.
Know that there is no such thing as failure, There are simply “undesired results” due to mistakes. If you are unhappy with your results then discover what’s wrong and find more efficient methods. You control it all if you can learn how to get past all of the negative thoughts in your mind trying to hold you down.
Last but not least, why are you being so upset about your parents? I can understand why you would love their acceptance why wouldn’t a child? You have to realize at some point though that you don’t live for them. If they don’t give a s*** about you then honestly they are simply blind to the fact that you are an amazing individual with overwhelming potential. All you can do is accept them the way they are and move on with ither things. Don’t let your mind put limits on what you’re capable of.
It’s easy to let external circumstances forge an identity on you. If you grew up an enviornment where people constantly called you a failure then it’s no surprise why you believe so. On the other hand if its the result of you telling yourself that your a failure then your own mind is becoming your worst enemy. You become whatever you are thinking, so what will help you is telling yourself that you are successful throughout the day. Whether or not you have the proof is irrelevant because your subconscious cannot tell the difference between truth or lie. It simply acts on whatever it is you’re thinking throughout the day.
Overall if you want to be happy, learn to accept things and always find the beauty in everything. Forget about worrying about the future. Forget about all the undesired results that you gotten in the past. Those were simply due to mistakes that you are 100% in control of at all times. The past and the future never will and never have existed. You will never exist in any time other than right now. Learn how to be satisfied with that and you will be farther ahead than almost everyone you know.
You are the creator of your own universe and it is up to you to choose what you want.
Dear Annoymous,
Find a reason to live. God created you for a reason. Go to church and learn about God. He will guide you through life. Your parents- They are probably going through hard times. I don’t mean to sound mean- But around them you need to fake a smile on your face. But, most of all, go to church and learn.
Smiles,
Kira