Posted by Anonymous on 2015/06/02 under Friends I am always finding myself being ignored in different groups. On social media direct questions are “seen” without a reply,my friends don’t ever seem interested in what I do unless it concerns them – saying that, they ignore events that involve them to raise their problems with it last minute. I’m so confused because I don’t get why all of a sudden I have to persuade my friends to talk to me, I have to accept that certain parts of my life aren’t worth sharing because they wont care and it’d be another embarrassment to reply only to get no response. I dont know what to do or where I went wrong to be surrounded my so many people yet have noone to talk to.
Hey. I don’t have any real words of wisdom to give you but I wanted you to know that I read this. I hear the your feeling alone, and I’m so sorry that you do. I don’t want to compare you to me, cos let’s face it, I don’t know you and you don’t know me, but I’ve been through the experience of feeling/being alone. The only piece of advise I can give you is what help me through it. I started writing in places like this. Whatever I was feeling, I wrote about it. If I had a bad day, I wrote about it. If I saw someone cute in the street and they gave me a look, I wrote about it. Sometimes people wrote back, most times they didn’t. But, it’s when someone writes back, a complete strangers possibly from the opposite end of the world, simply writes back. They listened (or read, whichever you prefer), to me. And I discovered that I liked the way it felt, so I started writing to other people too. The fact is; You don’t know if anyone is going to see your post, but then again I don’t know if you’ll even see this reply. But, I did. And I’m taking the time to let you know I did. It’s not about writing YOUR feelings or thoughts, it’s about reading/listening to another’s, even if they don’t know that you’ve heard them.
I hear you. I get it. I hope you’ll get through it. And even if I never know what happens with your life from this moment on, I just wanted you to know, that there will always be people happy to listen.