Posted by Anonymous on 2015/05/25 under Uncategorized Four years and counting. I’ve been secretly liking my work partner, who I can never be with romantically. Life is not easy and this adds to the sense of despair. It would be good if I could just easily erase him from my life but with so much work shared between us, it’s impossible to stop communicating with him. I like him a lot. The very charming person that always helps me solve some problems. In turn, I try to be his reliable teammate too. There is a lot of chemistry between us, I feel we can resonate at the level of the mind. But all these are going nowhere. The fact is I HAVE TO stop liking him. But he’s the only person that makes work bearable. The only reason for me to be cheerful in the darkness. The only one who cares (but pretending he’s not). To be honest, I feel I’ve got part of his heart stolen. I feel he is the one. But the reality tells me no. Seeing him and hearing him talk cheer me up. I’ll not be able to easily drop these feelings. Caught in a limbo. 🙁
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Hey don’t worry if you both care about each other then what do you have to lose if you really care about someone that much. Then the best you can do is stay the way you are so they keep liking the same person. My problem is when I’m stuck in a relationship I change to make the person like me better but they like me for the person I was the the person I was trying to be. Little improvements are fine but changing your whole personality is not the way to go. If you can do your best to stay friends then you will realize that a relationship of beig more than friends isn’t really as Inportant than having someone there to have your back. So hang in there girl you can pull through
Thanks for the good advice. You’ve given me some new perspectives to look at the situation differently. Yes, things in the real world aren’t always black and white. We need to learn to navigate the grey space too. Certainly I agree with you about it’s more important to have someone who cares and who is reliable, rather than starting a relationship. Thanks for your words.