I’m tired of trying so hard for people who clearly doesn’t care. I mean, I get it that you’re busy and that we can’t talk everyday. I mean, I sometimes goes weeks without talking to someone but still, I’m tired of always be the one who send the text. I’m tired to be the only one who cares about the other. It’s like she doesn’t even try. And if she doesn’t try it means she doesn’t care, right? Or maybe I’m the b****? Maybe I’m too needy? I always put the blame on myself. But yeah, I’m tired of it. But I don’t want this friendship to end just because I’m too stubborn to send a freaking text. I feel stupid to think that way, it’s not that big of deal but I don’t know. Whatever. That’s stupid.
Ask them when they have a good bit of free time, and talk with them about how you feel and what’s making you feel this way.
If you feel that there’s a chance that its actually you whos too “needy”. Time to get a hobby. Cut down on the need-to-text slowly. Focuz on something else, gardening, singing, dancing, whatever floats your boat.
Because a person is most attractive and charming when they have their own thing going for themselves. = )
Sincerely,
TopHat