Posted by Anonymous on 2014/12/21 under Friends A couple days ago I tried to have a real conversation with my friend about how I felt in our relationship and my concerns and just basically asked why someone who tells me I am so significant in their life is now treating me like I am disposable. The reply, in short was “talk talk talk you’re not worth it but we are still best friends”. lol wtf? First off I am now thinking what the heck did I expect out of that conversation. I would say usually when someone treats you like you’re not worth any effort then that usually means… they don’t think you’re worth the effort. I don’t know what I even expected a grand explanation? no. I was just looking for some sort of understanding as to why this was happening amd just get what I wanted off my chest. I feel like even that didn’t happen though. I feel obligated to still be there for my friend and talk to them everyday because I feel like if I just stop I’m just being petty or oversensitive. I’m not though I know that I need to just surround myself with people who treat me like I want to be treated but I feel like we have been friends so long I don’t know. I think it’s time to move on honestly but I don’t know how or if I’ll regret it or what. I need friends who don’t make me feel like I’m not worth effort like their other friends that is just bulls*** to me. I need to really buck up this cannot continue. Like this is blatant, to my face disrespect it just makes me sad.
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I’m happy you took a step forward and decided to talk you your friend about how you truly feel. I know that I’m not sure of the answer that you received. I do know that you care for this person and that you want to be there for them. If you truly do care about them I suggest that you stick by his/her side. It’s also good to know that you want to be around people that treat you the way you want to be treated. It shows that you care about yourself and the well being of the people around you. I’m sorry things didn’t work out the way you had hoped the would. If you feel like it is time to move on let your friend know. No one likes someone that just disappears. Here if you need me..