Posted by Anonymous on 2014/12/21 under Uncategorized 1. Kevin is married with a perfect wife and lovely children. 2. Too much is at risk. 3. It will not work out. 4. Anna and Kevin are too different in many ways. 5. Maybe Kevin only sees Anna as someone like a daughter. 6. Maybe Anna should see Kevin as a father. 7. Keeping the status quo is the best way to protect both Kevin and Anna. 8. Maybe Anna is not good enough for Kevin. 9. Anna is too tough and she would not give in. 10. Kevin is too kind he also would not give in. 11. Anna might need to leave. 12. A matter of ethics. 13. It’s a big barrier in the real world. 14. Ifs will only lead to disappointments. 15. Kevin is often not here anyway. 16. Anna doesn’t want to be a burden. 17. Less dilemma means more happiness. 18. What would others say? 19. It may be transitory (although it seems to drag on and get more complicated in reality – sorry, should not mention counter reasons). 20. If you look back after 10 years, these are all just a small dot. 21. Intuition can be wrong.