Posted by Anonymous on 2014/07/04 under Uncategorized okay so here’s the deal once i hit secondary school i found out about shifting(kissing with tongue) and all of my friends are no longer frigits (people who still haven’t kissed anyone yet) but i’m still a frigit so my friends have tried to set me up with people but i’ve always backed out last minute because i want my first kiss to be with a boy i like and for it to be romantic like it is in the books. all my friends say that 1) that the kiss i want is fantasy that you shouldn’t wait for someone perfect because he doesn’t exist and 2) that kissing and shifting are two different thing but to me there the same So i guess i’m wondering am i right to wait for the perfect first kiss and am i the only one who thinks that kissing and shifting are the same????????? OH and i’d like to ask do boys ever change the way they are or what because i liked a guy and he liked me and i thought maybe if he tried to kiss me i’d let him but then he told me through a mutual friend -who was uncomfortable telling me this- that he would only like me if i wasn’t a frigit and that hurt me a lot more than he thought it would because i have a pretty low self esteem so any critism i get i take it pretty hard and personal even if its not so that hurt then he told everyone he didn’t like me because who on earth could like me but i think he still likes me even though he said that he didn’t just by the way he acts you know what i mean?? anyway should i wait for the kiss or just shift someone and i’m i the only one who wants to wait and advice on boys please oh and help on that whole situation above
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Ok this is ur life so u do whatever you want with it! You should wait for that right perfect moment that YOU want not that everybody else wants live your own life!u do whatever u feel right and good tgings do happen like in books just believe in urself Boys can be so irritating! Ok if u really like this boys then never ever give up on your dreams but if this boy is really causing hassel stress and anxiety in your life u need to look at that situation is a crush more important than enjoying your life ???? I didn’t try to be mean im just giving advice 🙂 “Its all going to be ok in the end,if it’s not ok then its not the end,life will get better”