There is this guy that I’ve know since 5th grade, it was until just this year that we have became best friends. I see him everyday, we talk often and we tell each other everything. After a while, just like all of the movies you see about a guy and a girl being friends, I started to like him, he seemed really into me and for a while we were together so much people actually started to think we were dating. Until one day we were talking and he told me about this girl that he’s trying to date, major slut that everyone knows. They start dating and the talking, snapchatting, texting, dms, everything stops. At this point we are still very close but all of the talking done through social media is stopped and to this day he might text or snapchat me if he’s bored or needs a favor. He’s not dating the same girl but the one he is dating now is the same type, just older. So why do I continue to fall for someone who will probably never love me back? That seems to be the question everyone of our friends ask us…
I went through the same exact thing just recently. I always tell myself that you cant control your feelings. I just keep looking up. I dont even speak to this guy anymore unless he texts me because he needs something. But we all fall for people who we may or may not have a chance with but its just how it works.
I agree with neverworn. It happens when you fall in love with someone you can’t have. It just your feelings. Sometimes you just can’t control them. It sucks and it hurts. Eventually though you may just have to hope you move on or it gets better.