Posted by Anonymous on 2014/02/13 under Uncategorized I get that caring about someone can be a scary feeling especially when the person doesn’t care for you back but I CARE I DO! He’s been through so much I know, losing his mom and dad, having his heart broken by the one girl he’s ever loved. But i’m not that girl… i’m not going to do that to him why can’t he understand that. I have been there for him through thick and thin I know I can become obsessive and annoying but it’s only because i care and i really do try to stop myself sometimes. Its just everyday.. every time i see him or I’m with him the feelings just get stronger i don’t know what to do. He tells me he doesn’t like me but how can you not like someone that you hang out with all the time, get dinner with, watch movies with… i don’t understand and it literally breaks me apart. Its like whatever i do is wrong… i know i can’t make him like me and i can’t make him understand the way i feel about him but i try… over and over again. its stupid and selfish of me and i know i need to just stop and get over it but i can’t.. not now.. not when everything he has ever loved and cared about has left him i can’t just walk away from someone that has gone through so much. If only i knew what to do
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i know how you feel besides you know he hasn’t lost his mom and dad. i don’t know what to do either..
You’re not doing anything wrong and you shouldn’t feel bad about caring like you do. One thing you must understand when pursuing someone is that unless its a mutual attraction the odds of it being easy are slim. If there is anything you’re really doing wrong its making yourself too available. Although that portion of it is hard when he has no one else. This is just a thought of mine though. We’re not all the same.