Posted by dman2210 on 2014/11/11 under Uncategorized this site has some issues i would love to fix… anyway… i just wish i was important enough to her that she would give me an update. that woulda been nice. she’s probably talking to her new panel of guys now. idk. im being harsh probably. but i didnt sleep, didnt eat enough, and hey, i just finished a sheetrocking project.
I wish I was given as much importance too.. But I think he too is talking to his panel of girls now. Probably flirting with them. He doesn’t even think of me ever I guess… Sorry I could not say anything comforting to you. I wish someone does.. So that I feel better too.
I just needed to talk to her and really confront her about it… it still worries me, but I think it will work out. idk you situation. I hope it gets better too.
Yeah I think confronting her is a good idea.. At least things will be clear.. Mine is too complicated, but all the best to you. Hope it works out.
Anything can work out. That’s what gives me hope.
You seem positive and caring. I think she will understand that too..
Still working things out. My fears are growing on me. I think she’s begun to confide more in this other guy than me. yesterday she decided to take a break from me. Idk what that means. I hung around with that guy all day just to make sure… She’s talking to me again. That’s good. I think it will work out somehow. How are things with you?
What is it between you too? Like, you guys are dating or what? And hey don’t worry, if you are important to her, no other guy will take your place.. Mine is too complicated.. I stopped talking to him like 6 months ago, although I was very very interested in him, because he never showed any interest in me. Honestly, I thought he would realize my worth and come back, but that never happened. And now, I just keep thinking of him. I try so much not to, but I do.. And that makes me feel very stupid.
We’ve been dating for about the same length of time you haven’t been talking to your guy. You were right. She still loves me. She was getting really stressed and honestly needed a break from everyone. I think she felt like I was losing interest in her, and as a protection or something she started pushing me away. So now we’ve worked it out, and I try to let her know everyday how much I love her, and she is much closer. It worked out. This guy must have been pretty significant to you if you’re still thinking about him. I know the feeling tho…
Oh I am glad, things worked out! You are quite lucky.. I hope you’ll never lose interest in her and you two stay together for a long time.
I will never lose interest in her. I hope she does not lose interest in me… I plan to marry her. I can’t wait till you find your someone. I hope you find each other fast. I hope they’re a good someone because you seem like a really great someone.
Thank you. And I am so glad that you plan to marry her. Because guys are usually afraid of commitment, I guess you are a great person. I am sure she won’t lose interest in you. And thanks for your nice words. Made me feel a bit better.
I want to be with her forever. I’m glad I could make you feel a bit better. Thank you. It means a lot to me that you listened.
Yeah.. So I guess, bye? Bye. And all the best!
I wouldn’t mind listening to your situation if you wouldn’t mind telling. In the long run maybe it could help. However, if you’re more comfortable parting here I totally respect that.
Hey, no.. I want you to know what’s going on with me. I want you to help me or even just listen to those of my feelings which I don’t uncover in front of anyone else. I just thought you shouldn’t be burdened. I am sorry, just stay.. Please.
Absolutely, I would love to at least listen. If I can do more, then I’d be willing. So what is going on with you?
Okay, so let’s begin with me. I have never been on a date. Um.. Yeah.. Never. I don’t really talk to guys as much. But I do have a few guy friends. My all friends have boyfriends and girlfriends and I am tired of listening to their fascinating moments. So then two years ago, there enters this guy. He is a huge flirt. Almost flirting with the whole school.. I don’t really like such guys but still we start talking. So we talk for like 4 months and he would always be around me at school. Girls started talking about us.. Most of them were jealous. And I sorta started liking him. Suddenly I hear of this new girl he is dating and two weeks later his girlfriend. I was hurt that he never told me about any of this. But then the year’s over and we go to different classes. And we also stop talking. But he remained on my mind for one whole year. So this year I decided to talk to him again so that I could sort out what’s going on with me. He said sorry and stuff. But I realized that talking to him made me weaker. I was falling for him. I loved his eyes and smile and stuff. Just not the flirty behaviour. I almost hated his personality. I wanted to get things clear. I thought I would go away from his life and he would understand what I meant for him and then I don’t know, maybe we could date? But I wasn’t important at all. He never came back. He just looks at me sometimes at school but I know he doesn’t like me. I wonder why I think about him anyway. I am not supposed to think about someone who doesn’t care about me at all, right? But I do. I am trying, really. But nothing’s helping. I go weak everytime I see him. I feel so unimportant and stupid.. I don’t want to give him the power to control my mood because that’s the power I give to very special certain people. But I don’t know why seeing him once has such an impact on me. I can’t figure out… But anyway, thanks for listening. Nobody knows this. I have been dying to tell this to someone.. What do I call you?
Thank you for telling me. Sorry it took so long to reply. The website wouldn’t work on my computer. You can call me what you want. I will call you Friend if that works for you.
Yeah that’s fine.. So what do you think?
First of all, what would you like to call me? Next, I wonder if he got the wrong message when you seperated from him. Is it possible he thinks you hate him? Or like its not possible you’d want to be even friends again?
Well, haha.. How about I call you Romeo maybe? Because you seem to be so deeply in love with this girl and that’s the reason we met.. And yeah maybe he thinks I hate him because I show him that I hate him.. Honestly, I really don’t want him in my life. I just wanna stop thinking about him. Maybe I will, once I stop seeing him around and that day is very near. But hey, let’s know each other a bit? So which country are you in? And what do you do?
Sounds great. I am in Idaho in the United States. I like to play and listen to music of all kinds. For my Job I design giant industrial pump parts.
Ooh! Your job sounds cool.. And you play music? I am in India.. I too love listening to music.. I love dogs too. I love helping people, mostly the poor. And we are quite far away, aren’t we?
We are! I apologize for the spotty replies. My internet keeps going down. I play piano and the French Horn and the clarinet, and the guitar. Do you play anything? What’s your favorite kind of music? Do you have dogs? I have one really smart one. If we lock him outside, he has figured out that he can nose his way in through our garage.
Oh I have no problem with your late replies if you come back:) and whoa! You are quite musical! I don’t play anything(I’m a really bad singer too but I love singing). I don’t have a dog as of now but I do play with some stray puppies around nowadays! And I love more of the soothing music.. Songs with meaningful lyrics. I love old songs too! What kind of music do you like? And I think your dog is quite smart! And do you have any connection to India? Also, how’s life nowadays?
It’s better. Still rough, still working things out. She gets frustrated over small things sometimes, but she still loves me. My favorite kind of music varies depending upon the day. Today it’s rock. like Pearl Jam. Our business has a couple connections to India. My only personal connection is a girl who I went to highschool with. Her family lived in India.
I am glad things are getting better. It’s great that the person you love, loves you back. So what’s your love story?
And isn’t there any other way to talk? Because our conversation is really slow here
Sorry. I’ve been preparing to serve a mission for my church. I’m going to Canada for two years. I leave on wednesday. Our love story: we met in an english classroom during lunch about seven months ago. She was telling her friends about how her parents were stressing her out and how she needs to get married to solve all of her problems. I walked in right as she said, “So that’s why I need to get married now.” I raised my hand as I heard that and said I’d do it, because she was very beautiful and seemed really fun. Her friend pretended to marry us and we ran the joke ever since. She asked me to a dance, and I asked her to prom. We started dating and fell in love and have been ever since.
If you are interested in hearing experiences, and how it goes, if you send me your email address I will send you updates.
I will send you updates on how my mission is going, I mean.
I am so sorry i could not reply.. um… how about you send me your email address i would contact you
There’s my first email address. I will be sending updates from my second one, which I will send you updates from once I get your email address.
Here’s the first one: <a href="mailto:[email protected]" >[email protected]
<a href="mailto:[email protected]" >[email protected]
<a href="mailto:[email protected]" >[email protected] is the first.
Here’s the first one: dman2210 @ gmail.com
without the spaces.