Posted by Anonymous on 2016/08/14 under Uncategorized What to say . What to write a broken heart filled to cry. I loved him for the years but today it just finished in minutes. He said he cannot marry me . A simple sentence finished my life. I truly loved him, have been faithful to him. Was easy to cheat but never did because loved him deep from my heart. Never could allow any one take his place in my heart. But what to do now. I have lost everything. Don’t know what to do. Cannot live without him . Cannot even think about living without him. Could you suggest.
I’m so sorry :(. But you do not want to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you…was it the “marriage” word that scared him? Time always helps…it’s also the hardest thing…thinking of you…whomever you are ❤️
I can’t even imagine how you feel but trust me, it’s better this way. You may not know why or how this is better but it really is. Someday, someone will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Don’t cry over him. He is not worthy of you. Apparently, you loved him more than he did and now you need to move on. I know it’s hard but it’s for the best. You deserve literally the best and so does everyone, so don’t settle for less okay? 😉
Hi. It’s not easy to move on. He loves me cares for me. Sometimes behaves different sometime very caring. I asked him a simple question told him that he should leave me..He says no. He doesn’t want to leave me. But cannot marry me. I am upset depressed. Feel like finishing my life
Oh… Why don’t you sit down and talk to him about it. Marriage is a huge deal and if it means so much to you then maybe you could work things out? I mean, all couples make compromises. Why don’t you talk a bit more about the whole marriage thing and see why he doesn’t want to marry you?
If have spoken to him a couple of times. He says my parents and past experiences are bad and hence that is why it don’t want.to marry. But wants to be with me and wish that is could stay with him but without marriage
Sorry his parents**
Yes, but it’s different. It’s about you two and not about his parents or some other bad experiences. Would you feel okay if you didn’t get married? Like, is it a big deal to you? If so, let him know. It’s not a problem you can solve within 5 minutes of discussion. It may even take hours or days but you gotta talk things through.
We belong to different religions. Which is the biggest problem
Hmmm… Yeah, It’s kind of a big deal…
What is the solution to it
Let me think…
What’s his religion?
One of Ur is Hindu and one is a muslim
Okay, can you tell me about these two religions please?
They are two different religions. They worship different gods. They don’t allow both to mix. Their thought process is different. They feel that if these two religions mix their god will punish them
Oh i see. Wait, if these two religions mix you will be punished but you still wanna marry him and he doesn’t? Am i right?
Punished in sense family fights . Our friends and others would never allow us to be together. May be after this we would never be able to see each other in our life. Don’t know if it leads to fights physical also.
Wow! Sounds awful. Would you rather get married to the man that to you love and lose your friends and family or keep them all and just don’t get married? Be honest.
To the man that you love*
Want to marry the person I love…
If not him then no one else either. Stay unmarried all my life…
You gotta make a desicion. I mean, apparently you are ready to sacrifice your family in order to marry that man and he doesn’t even want to talk about it? It’s insanse. I don’t know. Honestly, if i were you, i would make things clear to him. I’d tell him that if he really loves and cares about me he needs to think twice and make some compromises. Why would his relatives or God knows who else punish him if they know it’s about his own happiness? That’s literally over the line!
It’s all over between us