So my boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now. At first like many relationships it started out quite wonderful, but over time things began to change for the worse. He went saying that neither of us would have friends of the opposite sex, of course, eventually it came to my attention that he wasn't staying true to his word. I began to find messages from him that could be close to being flirtious, even for just being "friends". Like any guy caught in this situation, he didn't see the error nor harm in it. Claimed that it didn't mean much to him. I, of course, forgave him every time because I was to in love with him. This went on for some quite some time until he eventually stopped, but only for a while- until he started again. The funny thing is that he sees my guy friend hugging me as a sign of cheating, yet doesn't see his current actions as harmful and very "cheatful"