How do you break up with someone you really love as a person because they're absolutely wonderful but you just can't feel the same way? I think my significant other deserves someone who loves them the way that they love me. I'm too emotionally detached to love them at this point in my life and i feel selfish because i try to tell them and they just keep being patient and telling me they'll wait for me but i don't want them to. I want them to find someone else. I want them to be someone to who can love them in ways that i can't. I also am scared to end things because i don't want to lose them, but how do i ask them to stay in mine when i can't be what they deserve? I don't want them to think they did anything wrong because they've done everything right, but i just don't feel the same. I thought i would, but i don't and idk how to tell them. I mean i say it, i told them i don't love them the way they love me and they just want to wait. but how do i tell them that i don't want them to?