My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now. Our relationship can be really good but sometimes real bad. But i dont really tell him how i feel about it because i dont want him to think i control him because we arent that serious. Anyways, sometimes he disapears for 3 days but hes always with his friends. ( He isnt cheating i know it sounds that way but he isnt ) He loves smoking weed with his friends, if he isnt at work hes smoking weed. And it sucks because I do get a little jealous because he spends almost all his time on smoking weed and his friends, i just wish he could open his eyes and put me first for once. Im not sure what to do though i dont know if i should keep putting up with this or end it. When we are with each other he acts so inlove and attached and then when he goes back to his friends its like he forgets about me for a few days and then comes back. He makes me upset alot and i never tell him. but im so close to giving up, i hate this feeling. I hate how long this has been going on.