I’ve been here a very short amount of time. I’m probably making too broad a generalization but that’s alright. There is a lot of negativity on this website, I’m not saying that’s bad but I want those who write these negative things to know. I want to make sure that this is where they leave it. For a long time I carried my negativity with me even when I dropped bits of it behind, and it is helpful, it’s a fantastic thing to do! But know what you carry and know what you’ve left, in my experience I’ve found the two can get confused quite easily. I’m in love with a girl who will never love me, she can’t. But I’m graced to have her as a friend, blessed to have ever met her. I’m moving to a different country so that I can hopefully break these confused ties we have. I don’t carry this with me though, I try not to, it doesn’t help. Leave your negative in your word, whether it be anonymous or known. Let your positive be your life and every action. This isn’t advice for a reader, this is advice for myself.