let's say you were really really hungry, so you went to a restaurant but the restaurant said they weren't sure if they wanted to serve you food or not, and the last person they fed hurt them emotionally, so you have to jump through some hoops to eat. So you say forget this, and go to another restaurant – Then that restaurant says they'd rather feed all their food to someone else and it's unfair to feed you too. So you go down the street to another restaurant, then that restaurant wants you to smell the food but never fully commit to giving you a bite. So you move on to yet another restaurant and there is another excuse there on why you won't get fed. After 1,000 such restaurants you are not only starving but extremely frustrated. Your mind decides that it hates restaurants, because something so simple as a bite to eat (analagous to human attention/acknowledgment of your worth as a person) from those that control the food (analgous to woman) is made unavailable to you no matter what you do. You would hate "restaurants" too! THEN every now and then if you pretend you're not hungry at all, a restaurant might let you smell the food the again but will only give you a bite to eat if you're already so full you want nothing to do with them. Think about that!
