Not one person is truly a mind reader. If you have a problem you need to directly confront the person you have a problem with. You shouldn’t do this in a feisty or hasty manor. Think about what you want and how to approach them. Don’t accuse someone of doing something especially if it’s a sensitive topic. Be considerate of other’s feelings. They have emotions too. You also don’t know what other people are going through or have gone through. Most importantly be directed. What’s with this indirect bs? Publicly demolishing someone’s image and spreading lies is a poor choice for getting what you want; pick a proper time, place and way of contact to talk with them. Life is hard let’s be kind.