And other times there's just plain CRAZY.
Don't let your mind create unrealistic monsters to make life harder.
The one's that have had the real pain, seen the dark, felt hallow, unlovable, abandoned,and abused(sexually, mentally, physically) to the point of thoughts of why the hell am I alive. These are the strongest people who I know. Some jokingly say "crazy" and that might be from their neurotic behavior but they are survivors.
The one's that play make-believe because they are needing of attention and weak. They will forever be victims. Victims to themselves and people around them. Never growing or evolving. Stuck, rotting and fragile. If a hurricane hit them they would tip over. They constantly feel threatened, threatening, fearful. Let it go. I just want to say let all the drama go, if you can.