so i am in a predicament here.
basically i am on a college tennis team and one of my teammates i don’t really get along with. it seems as though she is in her own world and will say uncalled, hurtful things to everyone and she doesn’t seem to care. she will have her moments where she will be very nice and it’s great but she will definitely have her moments where she will say very hurtful things to me especially when we are with other people. i have had people warn me before going to the school that she can be very on and off with people and she is in her own little world. i have been in countless situations with her where if she was in the wrong i would always have her side but she has proven to me that she will avoid the drama and not help me out. i truly don’t know what to do in this situation because she is my teammate. and it is half my job according to my coach to be friends with her because it helps our team “bond” and that is very important to our coach. i have talked to this girl countless of times on how she hurts my feelings and how i truly don’t think she respects me as a person. i don’t know if it’s a jealously thing or not but why would she act this way towards me when all i have been was nice and cordial? there is no getting through to this girl.
please help me because i am losing my patience and i don’t know what to do