my mother is my mother.she had a unstable emotional behavior in the past but she has calmed down my mother's side of the family is mostly cantankerous excluding her father while my father's side is political my father was not in my life THAT much from infant to 5 then 11 then letters at 15 and so on to phone conversations at 24 till he passed a year later.My WHOLE entire life my mother has been sabotaging and manipulating and my grandmother's been instigating.I just had to get that off my chest