my friend is dating this guy who talks behind her back but no matter what i try to show her, like have self respect and love yourself instead, she is adamant that he's the one. the thing is, the guy is oblivious to what he is doing, he will talk s*** behind her back, but to her, he will appear all angelic. i really don't see the point at all. like, if you don't like my friend, why are you still with her. he will judge her art and call her stupid. then find someone your own size… smh, does it make you feel big to pick on the gullibility and innocence and trust of my friend, cos she loves you? you know, i think she can see through it but she just loves the guy so much, cos the other day we were drunk and she told me that she isn't sure, like something is wrong (her way of keeping privacy) but she's not ready to face it yet. but i will be there for her when the day comes. oh it will come.