Hi I am 16 years old and already in love with my boyfriend of two months. We want to marry once we are done with school and work together and have a baby. My parents and friends say that this is fleeting. My childhood best friend recently admitted his love for me and he thinks that I will be with him once my "fleeting feelings" with my boyfriend pass. I am so mad right now. I don't understand why everyone else thinks that they know what's best for me. For one, I don't ever choose to date my best friend, in fact, right now, his position as my "best friend" is being questioned. Secondly, while it's true and I am young and this is too soon to plan, it's nice to have something common to look forward to. By sharing our visions and working towards it, I feel safe that we will handle any hurdles along the way.
I understand my parents' worry though and I am sure in time, we will prove to them through our own efforts that we mean what we say.
People say I am too mature for my age. Maybe that's true but I don't feel like going to clubs, hopping form one person to another and be curious like that. I am a twin at heart, my sign is Gemini and I like to have a partner in crime if that helps anyone to understand my situation. Ugh…