there’s a guy I met two years ago, but he lives far away from me, (and when i say far, it’s far like plane-far), we always had a good connection, and last year our relationship went to friends to *something more because we had an one night together, and we still keep writing to each other, skype and things like that but lately he is strange, he doesn’t write as much as he did, and doesn’t have time to speak… and I know it’s not logic from me to fell down and sad because of that, but I truly miss him, and it’s killing me, just the thought of him is making me cry, I really want to be near him, but I can’t… and I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to just end it there, and the problem is that we didn’t say we’re in a relationship or whatever, it’s just a thing… I know he’s fond of me too, but this is just, too much for me, I’m lost and don’t know how to untangle this messed up *relationship…