My Counciler told me, “Many people expereance the pain of lossing people precious to them. But i just shoot right back at her, “But their pain isnt mine. Im alone with the pain and burdens I carry, because im not them, and they didnt lose what I lost. They lost someone or something precious to them, but i lost someones and somethings precious to ME, These people and things we lost are different,not the same, so there for, our pain is different…. because nobody and nothing are the same.” And then she goes quite… So much for her helping me with a new theory.