What do I do???? I am married with 3 kids all teenagers…. Been with my husband for 20 odd yrs and over the past few years i have developed feelings for a guy who is 15 yrs younger.. He has no real attachments maybe a girlfriend but nothing set in concrete …Apart from a few kisses and one heated meeting that lead to nothing nothing has happened so I havent been unfaithful … We hadnt spoken for 2 months then out of the blue he messaged me last week and then rang me then met me on the friday told me he had feelings but only wanted to be friends…How does someone do that… Now he wont speak to me…. I feel like I am on an emotional roller coaster… I love this guy … I only want to make him happy is that so wrong… I feel like my marriage has ran its race but because of my children I dont feel like I can walk out I dont want to hurt them…But i need to think of me… How How do I do this without damaging my kids……I often wonder if Mr 15 yrs younger is just waiting for me to leave my marriage… He might not want to be looked as as the one that split up a family.. I can understand that but he needs to be honest… Honest with me and with his own feelings….why does life have to be so difficult….. I love you and I know you feel strongly for me too… Pls pls put your heart out there with mine… If we are both honest only good can come of this……… Love you more than you could ever know….