Im so very lost right now. Im 19 live with my boyfriend. We have been together for 4 years. No children not married. We have been not getting along lately and were never really home to see eachother at nights. An old friend messaged me and says he has and had feelings for me. Well ithink this guy is pretty good looking and he knew i liked him before. I am faithful and will not cheat. My boyfriend knew i talked to him. Yesterday he told me he wanted to do things with me and kiss me and other stuff. I said no i have a boyfriend. But my boyfriend and i are on ice right now. He never listens and doesnt care. I clean he makes a mess he never cooks and gets mad if i dont. I do not work he supports me. No one will hire me. Also i ended my period two weeks ago and spotting there is a possible chance i could be pregnant with my boyfriend but i think ots too soon. I am so confused. Do i stay with my boyfriend and tell my friend to stop talking to me or do i leave my boyfriend move to my moms. Im so lost i cant keep doing what im doing.