I’m just not sure what is happening with my life.. I’m 24 and single. i usually don’t open up to people but i met this guy..and he made me shed all my inhibitions… but as all stories roll out.. he dumped me..really badly. And I went back into my shell. I just didn’t want to get hurt that way again..and i built up these walls to protect myself. Now its somehow become my nature to shun anybody who tries to show the slightest interest in me..kind of a reflex mechanism..and frankly I’m lonely. I just feel depressed cause i want someone to be there for me and take care of me..but I just cannot change myself. I try to let someone in..but if they get too close, then I automatically pull back. I’m lost..Help!