Among my group of friends, I am refereed to as the Leader. I never asked for the position, I simply began to be in charge of organizing our get together and figuring out dates that was suitable for everyone to go to. I hate that. Why do I have to be responsible for that? They always rely on me to figure things out and I'm tired of it. I'm a leader, but I'd rather be a follower. They come to me with their troubles and rely on me to help them, to hold everyone together. They're all good friends, truly, I just don't like feeling like I have to do all the work and make sure that everyone is happy.