Posted by Anonymous on 2017/12/30 under Love I’m a 18 year old guy in high school and I’m pretty smart, athletic, I’ve been told I’m funny, and a attractive guy. So I like this girl but I can’t tell if she likes me I flirt with her and we hangout but only in groups. There’s never any real signs if she likes me i don’t know what I can do to get her to like me. I act like myself and she likes who I am but I believe she sees me as just a friend what should I do?
Dear, friend I know that sometimes heart doesn’t listens to the mind it only listens to heart but the truth you have to accept is stop acting as being a friend but rather act like a lover, and finally say your heart feelings to her if now also she says only a friend, than stop wasting your precious time and do some work what will make you happy in future , After all you will find beautifu many again but you will not find your time again.
Dear, friend I know that sometimes heart doesn’t listens to the mind it only listens to heart but the truth you have to accept is stop acting as being a friend but rather act like a lover, and finally say your heart feelings to her if now also she says only a friend, than stop wasting your precious time and do some work what will make you happy in future , After all you will find beautiful girls many again but you will not find your time again.
To leave the friend zone you have to risk the friendship. Simple as that.
I would start by initiating a one on one hang out session because right now there’s a good chance she doesn’t even know you like her like that.
The good thing is that since you’re already in the same group of friends that shouldn’t be too hard. But if after the hangout session things feel the same she may not be into you that way (yet), which is ok. Give her space and see if she reciprocates.
But if you don’t take a chance you’ll never truly know.