So i recently read 50 shades of grey. Just like ever women out there. But i didnt enjoy the book, not for the kinky stuff, but the affection that Christian shows Ana. I look and my husband (married 4 months) and he doesnt show me any apart from when he wants things….. He sees people in the street kiss and hugging and says its horrible, but i want that, and i dont know how to tell me to show me more. I love him, ive been with him 6 years, tell me it will get better!!