Someone PLEASE tell me why the f*** am i always the one who gives more? Why am i always the one who cares more, hurts more? I can't keep doing this. Why is it that nothing good can stick around for me. Why is it that I'm always there but actually, not quite ? Please, please tell me. What on earth am i doing so f***ing wrong? I know I'm not perfect and i sure as hell I'm not angel. But for fucs sake I'm not a horrible person. I'm tired of always caring more. Just for once i want someone to care as much as i do. I can't anymore , i just can't 😭😭😭😭
I don’t know u but talking to strangers and making friends had always been my hobby so just want to say that i think u r taking things for too much and on the top of it caring is a really good habit and a caring nature is the very first thing people look for and here u go u have this and i think the very same actually and i am happy to share things with someone who thinks the same so just want to tell you whosoever f***ing did not like to stick around you and ignore u just keep ignoring because not everyone is not same and have a good nature like u,so keep going maybe whenever u feel like u r angry at things and may feel stressed even;watch tom and jerry this may be a little kiddish but that’s the way i ignore things like this…. so have a good day and just remember when all of it just again cross your mind just think that u r the best and remember your good nature to people
Sometimes it’s easy to not see are flaws and turn to the world around us as blame. No one is perfect, it’s quite true. Look into your self, what do you expect from others and what do you expect from them. Sometimes givers find themselves amongst takers because of the things done to them in the past, the way we learned to love from our parents and role models. To find someone who cares about you as much as you do them, you must care for your self in equal measure.
Don’t ever quit caring and feeling it’s a beautiful quality. Oh and none of us are perfect! I’m assuming this post is about close friends and relationships. I would recommend that you take a piece of paper, draw a line down the center, head one column with WHAT I WANT IN LIFE (OR RELATIONSHIP) and the other half WHAT I DO NOT WANT IN LIFE (OR RELATIONSHIP). Your do not want list will probably be longer, at least it was for me. Once the list is finished, and it may take you weeks, you’ll have a better understanding of what’s really going on in your life. You may find out that the people that you allow to hurt you were never worthy of your love. Or you may find out your expectations of them are high. Remember to let go of things that are out of your control. We are only in control of ourselves. Learn to live and love yourself. I wish you the very best and the strength to grow.
All of these answers are beautiful and i want to thank each one of you individually. I’ve not been feeling the best lately, and i guess feeling blue actually showed me that i have been too patient with certain situations that made me rather angry. And keeping my anger bottled up did more harm than good. I’ll try out that thing with the list. Thank you very much