Posted by Anonymous on 2019/10/30 under Life I had a crush on someone for so long, 6 months. I knew he doesn’t have the same feelings as I do. I tried my best everyday to conquer these feelings , to forget about him. Why I’m obsessed with this guy. I already knew he like someone else and the person like him back. What am I doing here. Being a jerk. I wish I can cleanse my emotions toward him and have my own little life. My life is so miserable of having a crush on him. I’m blaming myself everyday that I shouldn’t have like him at the first place. I know he is not worth it. I’m exhausted . I hate myself.
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First of all, Its not you. Everyone has emotions and at some point it is very frustrating. I too have a similar problem but in a different way. Feelings dont lie and you should be able to accept it. You need to accept that you like this guy and need to accept that he likes someone else. The kind of strong feeling you have for him is the same feeling he has for the other girl. I personally suggest that starting to accept his feelings for the other girl and ignoring everything he does is the best way. It is hard but slowly you will move on. If possible erase him from your life in such a way that he doesnot need to question your ignorance. For eg. If you block him he might ask you why you did so. That can cause more mental stress to you. Accept and move on. Pour it out somewhere. That will make you feel better. Love you <3