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Posted by on 2019/01/07 under Life

ok so my boyfriend is a hard ass and he has a strong ass opioion and it drives me crazy he is not scared to tell anyone what he is feeling and he happens to tell me what and how he feeling with no problem regardless of how im feeling last night he made himself very clear. we was laying down and he put his arm on my stomach and I said "can you move your putting to much pressure on my stomach" because my period is on its way and It hurts ya know? so then a second later he was like "your out of shape" what?????? how? trust me I know I don't look the best body wise but he didn't have to say that so I looked at him and repeated what he said and he said "yeah" that f***ing hurt really bad so I got up and moved and slept somewhere else. so the next day (today) I got up and went home. I took a shower and went back to his house. we got back into it and I went back into his room to get away from him because I knew he was gonna hurt my feelings again and I just couldn't. he came back into the room and said "dude I say that to everyone I tell everyone to work out and get healthy." but yet he knows I don't feel the greatest about my self and he still didn't see a damn thing wrong with anything he said.so I told him to get out. I left tears running down my face but as soon as I did I pulled myself together and 10 miutes later he asked m e if I was over it like are you stupid or something? I said no and told him to sit down trying to explain that what he said was wrong and I didn't take it in the way he was trying to put that. but yet again that wasn't what he wanted to hear so I he stormed about the room like a kid getting candy. I felt like s*** I knew If I was to say something bad he would've held it agaist me like its nothing. so I tried to hold my tounge, but the stuff I did say made my point more then clear I said bro your making me feel like s*** about myself you sent all this time building me up just to bring me back down, that is just a waste of your time if you ask me, but anyways I don't know what to do about all this, am I wrong? am I looking too deep into it?

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  1. Anonymous says:

    Sounds like a Nazi dictator aka Typical Narcissist behavior, aka one who thinks their the only who has opinions and feelings, and/or does not care how you feel or what you say, aka my way or the highway.

    (Note how he put the blame on you, and commented about being out of shape? its called deflection. especially when they change topics in the midst of an argument or intense conversation about how you feel or how they offend you. Arguments should lead to a mutual resolution and understanding, a respect. Then again some arguments also have to be one in the wrong and the other in the right.

    But in this case, it seems you have a good handle on the rights, so give him the boot if he doesnt give to your needs. NOT WANTS. Needs and wants are two different animals.

    Normally I dont go defending women for nothing but as the women movement (empowerment thing) says your own your own take care of yourself. But hes being a D***!

    If you want him to keep bashing and belittling you, then stay with him and be the cowering dog, otherwise show him the door and dont let him back in….Unless he can show you the same respects he shows himself (very doubtful) hes not worth or life of self esteem and dignity.
    Kick him in the balls and if he complains tell him hes out of shape….PAYBACK!

  2. `bella says:

    thank you so much since I wrote this things have been getting worse. ima show him the door.

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