Hit me and had rough sex even when I didn't consent to it. Does it mean it's rape? Then when his friends were over, I remember how he was talking to them about being a gentleman and that more guys need to be kind, nice, and not be f***boys. Then he apologized to me for what he did but then he did the same thing again. I don't know. When I broke up with him, he broke into my apartment posing as a mutual friend of ours few times through the speaker phone and then aggressively argued with me about what a piece of s*** I am for letting such a nice guy go.