Posted by Anonymous on 2014/07/31 under Uncategorized Hi,
I wish someone could help me out. I’m really in a bad state. My life’s sort of messed up and I’m in this dark hole. I was working and then my folks made me quit and now are forcing me to get married. Can’t figure out how to get out of it. I’m depressed and under-confident. I was fine when I was working, the best at the job. But now I’m stuck. I’m scared of venturing out into the unknown. And when I tell my friends, they say that I should stop blaming other people for my predicament. But if I start blaming myself, I’m scared I’ll end up killing myself. I’ll hate myself so much. What do I do? How do I get out of this? Please help.
It’s all a matter of perspective, honestly. And unfortunately I can’t tell you how to get out of the hole because everyone does it differently.. Mine is basically a) improve myself in terms of physically and b) making myself think logically. Think about what it is that makes you unhappy and really think about how to resolve it. And don’t make any decisions when you are depressed or emotional, they are never the right ones. Also try reading books on how to overcome depression. Hopefully this will give you some ideas of where to start! Good luck! Don’t forget you can always call a depression helpline.
I don’t think we have a depression helpline where I am… but I think I’m going to check out some books. Anything to get me out from this place. Thank you so much for replying. I’m so glad someone listened 🙂
I guess at some point we’re all pretty much messed up in our own little unique way. The thing about living into other people’s perfect idea of what would make us happy makes us feel otherwise. Keep in mind that going thru with their plan OR choosing the path that would make you happy would require a big amount of fear & stress. With that said, If you would go thru the same thing why not choose the one that would satisfy you in the first place?
You’re right. But the issue is I can’t figure out the path I want right now. I mean i’m really scared and under-confident at failing in whatever I set out to do. Anyway, thank you so much for reading my post and trying to help! It feels great to know someone’s listening!