i wish i could ask my guy friend to go to a concert next month but the problem is i’ma girl and its a 3 day 2 night trip, and i feel like it might sound wrong. i don’t want people to get the wrong idea, like we’re going to do something because we wouldn’t. we’re just friends. and i want to ask him because he’s the only friend i know who likes the same music as me, but i don’t know if he’d want to go for the same reason, let alone get permission from his parents to go 🙁 sometimes i just wish i was a guy it would be so much easier, not like in life, but i have only guy friends and we can’t do like sleep overs and hangout late because we’ll imma girl and people get the wrong idea.
I know what you mean! It is more fun to be friends with guys and I am jealous that you are. All that matters is that you know your limits and when you are friends, you are friends! Who even cares what other people might “think” you are doing. Those people are just jealous that you can become friends with guys without dating them! Cool!
You’re too scared of what people thinks. If you’re afraid your friend might get the wrong idea, be clear with him. It might affect him or not but you have no hold on that. He loves the same music? He’s gonna be excited for sure!
Again, no matter what the others think, you’re the one who know what happens. I have tons of girl friends, and it doesn’t have to end in the bed.