Posted by Anonymous on 2019/12/25 under Friends There is this girl. I know her for 3 years now. I must admit she has grown on me. I really like her. But I believe she really has some troubles with herself. She doesn't have a boyfriend nor that many friends and apart from going sometimes at uni and Spanish lesson, she doesn't really do anything at all. I can actually admit I don't really like that she has all this great views on topics but whenever she can do something to help change the world a bit for the better, she just doesn't do anything. So yeah, this kind of girl. I am also in a relationship. He is the greatest guy ever. We have been together for 5 years now and I just can't get enough of him. He is gorgeous, smart and he loves me a lot. I don't doubt him for a second. So, when my friend started asking every time we met if he will come I didn't give notice. When I saw that she liked some guys that resembled my boyfriend I got some suspicions but I thought that I was just being jealous. And I tried to overlook the fact that she was making it seem like O wasn't trying for my relationship and it was so great just because of my boyfriend. (he is great, but of course both of us work on our relationship so it can be as amazing as it is). But then the other night she told me out of the blue "I was thinking yesterday if I would ruin my friendship to be with your boyfriend. I realized I would never!". After that, one day, me and a group of friends went out, my boyfriend and her included. We were drinking and at some point she started resting her head on his shoulder and hugging him whenever she got the chance. A few days later, I saw on her personal blog that she dreamt that a friend's boyfriend was hitting on her but she was saying no. To make myself clear, I am sure about my boyfriend. I know how much he loves me and I talked to him about it. He said that he didn't realize she might be into him and that he will stay away from her. But I don't really know how to act around her. I can't really tell her anything, she will call me crazy and she will just get mad. And I have to recognise that she has never made a move on him (well apart from that night but she was drunk and we'll my boyfriend turned and kissed me at every chance). What should I do?